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Posted by: JaneMay 1 year, 3 months ago

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Have you ever noticed when the head person of your organization or any organization for that matter, be it a CEO, CFO, President, Vice President speak, they capture the attention of the audience. That kind of executive presence may be innate for some, but can be learned for those who seek out those qualities of a senior executive.

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    mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

    I have stood in front of my buyers for company seminars, people worth millions and fascinated them with stories from my life. Stories that sometimes were worthless sometimes emotional, but always personal.

    I was a celebrity to these people, my comments had exaggerated value.

    Ask your self why are you in front of these people.

    Give yourself not just self worth, but a swagger...

    Convince other's that you represent something of value to them. Maybe not life or death situations, an increase in wages, or job security. What ever you're talking about has to have value. I have had people with collage degrees that took speech tell me how jealous they were of me for having the ability to talk an hour about nothing, unprepared, and hold my listeners attention. I had their future in my hands... or so they thought.

    Read internet how to's, little things can make a difference. I have taught myself phone sales doing that.

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      JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

      Great to hear Mark. You shed light on a wealth of experience. Being able to have that "swagger" is something that can be learned, but it's just like you said, you have to believe and have value in what you're saying to be congruent with your words and actions.

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        NPendrigh1 year, 3 months ago

        This may sound simple - like people are attracted to like

        Like minds are attracted to like

        Like thoughts are attracted to like

        If you are interested, there is more at: http://www.NigelPendrigh.Com/Interview

        Cofidence and Certainty carry the day - this comes across best when it the body language doing this on a subtle level

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        mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

        Only a writer would use the word congruent!!

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          JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

          lol...I'll take that as a compliment :-)

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          mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

          It was!!

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            ListenUP1 year, 3 months ago

            I nodded my head while reading this..... alas I have a long way to go.

            I AM practicing my swwagger rightt now butt it makes itt kinda hard to typeee..

            Thanx

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              jumpmaster1 year, 3 months ago

              One stiff martini always gives me a little swagger. :-)

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              JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

              A little hip hop and rap might help with that as well...i nod my head all the time :-)

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              match1 year, 3 months ago

              Yep, all very true. Your site always provides great insights and this is yet another!

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                BronxBomber1 year, 3 months ago

                Not nod you're head at all? I'm afraid that's the only point where I disagree JaneMay. I would say do it, but not do it excessively. But you have to show that you, and the other party are, at least reading the same page. At least nod you're head in the deepest sincerity.

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                  JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

                  I see your point (as I nod my head) :-)

                  My counseling background would agree with you. However, there are many different styles people have and regardless of what that style is, comfortablity with it, confidence and clearity are all major components that speak to capturing your audience. Through observation, I've seen most senior level executives have a neutral stance when listening to someone yet in their response extract both the positive and challenges from what that person said.

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                  mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                  If people are watching your head non, chances are they are not paying attention

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                  UnusualSuspect1 year, 3 months ago

                  Yes...very interesting about the nodding. I wouldn't have thought about that before. I suppose the really trained person would learn to nod only when agreeing with another's comment, and not nod when they might disagree. But, like you say, that requires practice, or else you'll look like one of those toys you see in the back of some cars where the head is bobbing back and forth as the car moves...LOL...

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                    JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

                    hahaha...I love those little bobble heads...LOL

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                    mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                    The Seattle Mariners are always having Bobble head night...

                    Now if they could have a string of wins...alas I dream

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                      cheng021 year, 3 months ago

                      If you have fear of public speaking, you can overcome it so that you can speak to a crowd too.

                      One way is to close your eyes and visualize yourself standing on stage and talking very confidently to the audiences. Look at your confident self and the pleasant faces of the audiences.

                      This report by Bob Proctor will help you do that.

                      www.visual...

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                        JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

                        toastmasters is a great organization to join to improve your public speaking

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                        jasontan1 year, 3 months ago

                        Interesting topic here... Visualization does help. Before you even step on stage, visualize the whole process, the end result of it. This was taught by a a world class platform speaker, he explained that when you are able to visualize the end result, or the whole process of ppl liking your speech, you'll then know how to bring yourself to talk that way. It's just like when you know where you are going, only then you'll know the way to it.

                        One more thing I found interesting is this report that is flying around the net http://www.studyofgettingwealthy.com/download/l... it did mention about visualization and stuff...

                        Any other techniques that speaker uses?

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                          JaneMay1 year, 3 months ago

                          Find a face in the crowd that makes you feel comfortable and focus on them...don't stare at them because you don't want to neglect others, but when it's getting a little intimidating up there, go back to your comfort person and relax...this used to help me a lot.

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                          aceofspades11 year, 3 months ago

                          Jack boots a fresh uniform a swagger as you walk an affirmative shake of the head - short clipped phrases a lifting of your arms & a movement of your fingers always seem to work - but you really have to drop the german accent

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                            Obaku1 year, 3 months ago

                            How to act like a CEO.

                            Pretend you are an idiot. Be lethargic, almost to the point of catatonia.

                            Always move the conversation to golf.

                            Remember, whatever happens, you have an urgent appointment - far away from the problem.

                            Delegate, i.e., shift responsibility - blame goes down, credit goes up.

                            Never, never say 'yes' when asked a direct question.

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                              mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                              OBAKU, I hope that was tongue in cheek humor, If not... I don't care... na na na na

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                                Obaku1 year, 3 months ago

                                It's only funny because it is true.

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                                mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                                I forgot, that insted of being offended by OBAKU's statement, there is a long list of what the he## were they thinking C.E.O mistakes!!!

                                Donald Trump fits OBAKU's description perfectly. Donald at the age of twenty seven was given four hundred million dollars by his dad. Since then, he has become America's most annoying man, and has had two of his companies file bankruptcy.

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                                moxxxxxxxxxx1 year, 3 months ago

                                Nodding when listening to others is a sign of approval. Nodding when you are speaking is a sign that your are looking for approval.

                                I used to be impressed by people who could speak about nothing now I just see them as wasting my time. I don't need to be talked at - tell me something I need to know.

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                                  nu20071 year, 3 months ago

                                  Glad you finally see the truth between the lines :-) Knowledge is power!

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                                    mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                                    You were ment to lead not follow, most people probably waste your time.

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                                    LAC31 year, 3 months ago

                                    Great Tips. Practise,p...

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                                      SASSYSAMRAI1 year, 3 months ago

                                      I OVERCAME THIS FEAR WHEN I RECENTLY READ "EVERYONE, REGARDLESS OF HOW IMMACULATE, CLEAN, OR SANITARY THEY THINK THEY ARE, (HAS WHAT'S EQUIVALENT TO PEANUT-SIZE) "POO" IN THEIR DRAWERS." NOW WHEN I BECOME NERVOUS OR BEGIN TO "FALTER" OR LOSE THE "SWAGGER" I REMEMBER THE PERSON (OR PEOPLE) I AM IN FRONT OF HAVE "PEANUT POO-PY DRAWERS" AND I AM ABLE TO REGAIN MY SWAGGER BACK.

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                                      elel1 year, 3 months ago

                                      Three cheers for "peanut poo"!! :)

                                      I impress on my son, during his presentations, besides posture, to always make eye contact with the whole of the audience, never to focus on just one person. Of course when he was in a band, he responded, "will do, unless that girl is really hot"!

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                                        moxxxxxxxxxx1 year, 3 months ago

                                        You were ment to lead not follow, most people probably waste your time.

                                        You are right about that. It is also interesting how many people mistake talking about nothing as a sign of intelligence.

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                                          mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                                          Getting people to listen to nothing either is the sign of intelligence or the arrogance of it. Which get's back to sounding like a C.E.O.

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                                            kjripp1 year, 3 months ago

                                            It's always easier for me to read tips like these than to practice them. Public speaking has never been my forte, and I pretty much do the opposite of everything mentioned!

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                                              mark-stevens1 year, 3 months ago

                                              Imagine Barbara Striesand or Jiimy Page of Led Zeppelin suffering from stage frieght... well they do!!

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